UNTITLED

The title of this blog and my current mental situation is in a similar condition, both have lost their way somewhere and are feeling left out, left out from this whole world. I always take my own decisions in my life and sometimes my decisions just backfires and leaves me shattered and numb. Right from my childhood i have been an energetic,vibrant individual but the way life is taking it's toll on me, i fear of losing my vibrancy and energy very soon.
I have this characteristic trait of me, that i cannot snatch anything anytime. Even if it is my right to get a thing, i would rather wait and watch and then try to grab anything that's left over, but everytime i will end up with nothing. The world has really become a place where everyday, everyone has to run, run in a race, a race for survival, a race for recognition,money,esteem and the list goes on, but what if one doesn't have the legs to run? Everyone has the right to survive in this world.If an individual is slow or incapable of running, does he/she loses his right for survival? In every other movie we can see the hero coming out in flying colours, defeating the rest, but what about the rest? Those people who couldn't win like the hero, should they say "AAL IZZ WELL" ? Can anyone who has lost something really precious actually say "AAL IZZ WELL" ? Ask a father whose daughter has been refused for dowry, ask a mother whose son has been killed in war.
The real world is very much different from the silver screen and there are so many people who are in pain. Most of the time, we stay bothered with ourselves, our problems,so much  that we cannot see anything else, but none of us ever bother to rise above our own problems and try to give happiness and solution to someone else's problem. There is a lot to give, then to get and the real happiness lies in giving and not in getting. If we can rise above our problem's and try to help each other then this world will definitely be a better place to live in.......

Valentines Day

Two years ago i had spent a valentines day whose memory  i still cherish, but after that many tides have flown, the world has changed a lot and our lives have also moved forward.Though we are not together anymore, we both cherish that day very much in our memories, but hello hello hello...... this is the month of february and it cannot be unkind to me.
I guess i will cherish this time around even more because i met with an old, dear friend of mine after 10 long years..I was so excited,,didnt really realized that a DECADE has passed in between us when we last met. The month of February has always been kind to me and this time it brought love for me through a friend.
Love has multiple dimensions and since valentines day is a day to celebrate love, somehow i feel people just concentrate on their life partners more then any other relationship in life.We have so many relationships in our life and every relationship has their way of showing love.
I feel friendship is one such relation that one should be proud of because this is one relationship that any individual makes or chooses on his own,any other relation is pre-decided, i.e. decided even before we are born.This valentines day i would like to show my love for all my friends who have really made my journey of life special.I would grab every opportunity to thank them and help them with any thing that they would need from me.Life is never good without friends and i love them ALL........

The month of FEBRUARY

The month of feb is always special to me for numerous reasons...firstly to start with..the weather of this month,the nature around you...it is a month of change..from cold to cool..from cool to warm then warmer.....the nature also changes around you..the trees change their leaves..the birds sing around in joy, people just enjoy the warmth of the sun after 30-40 chilli days...
I personally love this month as there are many important events that occupy me on this month..To start with, on the 7th day of this month my best friend was born to bring the world to a danger..A real enthusiastic child by heart, she is a person anyone would love to be with round the clock.She will guarantee you a "brain drain" every time you are with her, a real sweet-heart and caring person..miss u very much sweety.Some other events include some good days i had spent with my ex-girlfriend in this month.We had shared a great bonding between us and now i repent why did i fall in love if one day i had to actually break-up with her..
It really feels good when you have a companion around with whom you can really be yourself. People always search for love all there life, but what i feel is anyone should share their life with the person with whom they can be themselves, they need not wear any mask to just "fit in the bill".In our journey of life we find people with whom relationship remains fine as long as you "nod your head" according to their wish.The moment you say something different,you will be either left alone or forced to accept the tide's direction.
There will be very few people who will really stand by you, with whom you need not nod your head according to their wish only, you can really be yourself and do what you feel at your heart.The month of February has always been special to me and i hope i meet people,or at-least someone to give February a great place in the memory diary of my journey of life.